The APEX striker is machined from heat treated billet stainless steel. It will take you a LONG TIME (if ever) to wear the striker to the point that it won't ignite a primer. Many other parts/springs will likely wear way before your APEX shows any signs of failure. If the APEX striker works now...it should work many, many, many thousands of rounds in the future.
Some things to consider.
1. Was the striker in your new FNS9 replaced with (OR SOLD WITH) the MIM striker that took the place of the original FNS billet striker?
2. I've had some laser cartridges that won't work with the FN striker, but never fail to ignite a live primer.
3. The laser cartridges are a crap shoot, with varying tolerances...meaning that some take more movement of the 'button' to flash the laser; and the 'button' can get a dimple.
4. What was the build date of your FNS? New old stock could be as old as 2011 or as recent as 2018. If manufactured after 2/12/17, it came with the new MIM striker installed.